If you are unsatisfied in your marriage, yet you are committed to enjoying a happy relationship, half the battle is already won.
Being committed is about not giving up. It's about valuing your relationship more than you value being right. It's about acknowledging that your partner's perspective is valid, even if you don't agree with them. It's about deciding to "get the good" at every opportunity, rather than focusing on what's not working (this alone will transform your relationship and your life. Try it! You'll like it!)
How to improve your marriage or romantic relationships? Good question. It can be a challenge. After all, humans are wired to seek out partners who will help us reproduce, which can pose a problem when our significant others don’t necessarily share the same values or desire to have children. In this blog and in my
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If you could dramatically reduce defensiveness in marriage in 2 days, would you? Defensiveness in marriage is a key cause of struggle between partners, so that may sound like a silly question, but the answer for most people is, “No”. I know that because if the answer was “Yes”, most people would get the relationship
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